The situation's too similar. Way too similar. Whether that's true or not... It's still all too alike. I don't want the same thing to happen all over again. It's actually freaking me out now... :S

I was terrified that I was losing you... I know I saw you when we went out and hung out at people's places, but we didn't really see each other, or talk. It just felt like forever since we had talked properly and I couldn't, and still can't afford to lose you. I have to say that I'm really relieved that we were able to talk properly today, just us, even if it was only for about twenty minutes. It still meant a lot and now you know that I was terrified of losing you, and it turns out you felt the same about me.

I'm so glad that you're all okay now and that we're good friends again. It tore me apart seeing how badly she treated you and how it affected you so much and the relationships you had with the people around you... I don't even know how to express how thankful I am that you found some one else instead, some one who treats you the way you deserve to be treated, and how thankful I am that I have you back again as a best friend. I always love every minute that I get to spend with both of you and him as well. Although... I have to admit that I am slightly worried about her trying to get in touch with you again. She has no right to interfere with your life again. :@

Realisation.

Okay, so I'm just a little bit scared of hanging out with you again. I was terrified of even saying hi to you... on msn. I'm pathetic, and I lied. I'm not just a little bit scared. I'm really scared. :( I hate that no matter how much I want to, I can't seem to completely trust a guy. I mean, I guess there is one I completely trust. It's probably more that I find it really hard to actually tell them everything even if I trust them. I've been thinking about all this a lot lately... and I noticed that every single guy who has said that they will always be there for me in the past and made promises to me went back on their word. And... well, I guess it's just kinda like there's always something stopping me from becoming as close to a guy like I used to be able to... There are three people in particular that I have been so close to, that I didn't think that anything could ever tear us apart, yet so many things did. I don't know how to explain any of this any more, so I'm just gonna leave it now and explain my title for this blog.

The other day I was looking through all my old photos and I found heaps of photos from when I went to India with my family at the end of Year 9. I think that was the year I started thinking that I was too fat and began throwing up or just not eating. My view of myself was so different then to how it is now... Looking back at the pictures, I was actually terrified of how thin I was, and I remember thinking that I just wasn't thin enough yet. I mean, I still don't think I'm thin enough these days, but I don't think I'm fat any more, and I wouldn't try to change that the way I used to, as much as I want to at times. I don't even know how to begin explaining just how much it terrifies me, which may seem stupid, but it's just... I was so close... so close to becoming so much worse.

Ah I can't even finish this blog... meh. There are just a few people I really wanna spend time with at the moment... although I reaaaally want to go back to camp as well. It was from Friday evening till Sunday afternoon at El Shaddai, where we all went for year 8 camp. It's so nice over there. I'm so glad I decided to go, even though the rest of my family didn't. I even talked to new people, which is generally hard for me, and got to know others better. :)